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Project 365 8-9-2010 Judge, Jury & Jailer

I am a prisoner.

You are a prisoner.

We are all prisoners and our prison is one that we cannot ever escape that binds us in chains that never give.

Our jailer?  Time.

Time never stops, does not care for your excuses and never shows mercy.  Conversely time does not make considerations based on sex or creed and proceeds at a set rate, never changing.  But still there is only so much time per day and no matter what you do you can never create more or sweet talk it into sticking around.  Time moves on, time does not wait and time will leave you behind if you are not caught up.

Time is a bitch and sometimes I feel like it is laughing at me!

I am so grateful for how things are progressing right now: I’m getting married to a wonderful girl, business is (finally) picking up and my plan to be completely out of all debt is coming together in ways I did not expect, but there is a lot to do and time management, as I’ve discussed before, continues to be my biggest struggle.  I’ve taken the only step that I can to ensure that I have more time during business hours and that is to wake up earlier – significantly earlier – which, thus far, has helped.

But time is a cruel judge and even on days when I feel very productive the check list never seems to have enough ticks off of it.  So I saw this:

I saw it as the wooden avatar of time ignoring me.

That bastard!

See you tomorrow!

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Project 365 8-6-2010 Men’s Formal Wear

I don’t have much in me today, not much sleep this week so it’s hard to concentrate on things to write – but write I shall!

I know I said I wouldn’t just post about my days anymore, but today was a day that included a very particular task: finding the formal wear for our wedding! 

It looked a little something like this:

I don’t even have a picture of the final choices in here, but I would like to thank Diane at Friar Tux for being so understanding and helpful.

See you tomorrow!

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Project 365 8-2-2010 Delays, Excuses, Etc.

There was a four day delay on the blog posts, sorry about that.  This is turning into a bad habit.  This time there was a better reason than usual, Rene is going through an ISP switch and so we didn’t have internet all weekend except via phone.

Honestly I’m also really starting to feel the crunch time wise. Looking for funding, planning a wedding, teaching and trying to get the acting career moving again all take time and there are only twenty-four hours each day.  I was up at 5:30 this morning and very active and still couldn’t accomplish as much as I wanted.

I am, however, really liking my new “To Do List for the week” thing that I’m doing!  It’s keeping me on task and gives me a good idea for how things are shaping up.  I just wish it wouldn’t fill up so quickly!

Here’s today’s pic:

This is the skin of a dog toy that was mauled and gutted.  I think it might make a fine pair of slippers.

See you tomorrow!

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Project 365 7-25-2010 grrrr…

You know what’s missing from this plate?

Funnel cake.

You know why there isn’t any funnel cake on this plate?

Unnecessary wedding drama!

I was so mad about this that I avoided writing this blog until now.

Looks like everything is fine now.  Next time I’d prefer if we skip the drama and move right to fine.

See you tomorrow.

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Project 365 7-22-2010 There’s a whole lotta’ good!

What do planning a wedding, planning an elopement, having a business meeting overlooking the water and teaching all have in common?

This guy, this guy right here!

Yes, you read right, a wedding AND elopement!

We’re nothing if not thorough.

Backstory: Rene really wanted to be married at a winery, but that was not going to be possible with the budget that is available to us and that bummed her out.  The Hacienda was a wonderful second choice, but it always clawed at her that she wasn’t going to have her pictures in the vines.  Then it looked like we might have to cancel the ceremony completely and then it looked like we might only be able to elope… it was a mess.

Through some crazy math and parental intervention (thanks guys!) we were able to solve the wedding issues and that inspired Rene to take a stab at getting the winery wedding she always wanted – and she got it!  When Rene really wants something she’s really good at negotiating it out.  So, for virtually nothing, she’ll get all the pictures in the vines that she wants, a nice lunch and we’ll be with just a tight group of whomever can make it on that day.  It’s pretty neat.

On top of that we still get to have the wedding, wedding…

…shit there’s actually a lot that I have to do for that.

I should get on that.

Today’s picture is from my investor meeting this morning:

It’s tough to beat lunch and a good discussion overlooking the ocean.

Crap, I literally just thought about all the stuff we need to finalize in the next two weeks – it’s gonna’ be exciting!

See you tomorrow!

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Project 365 7-21-2010 It is DONE!

Stuff happened today, blah, blah, blah…

None of that matters because today – after all kinds of wondering and changes of plans – we have a wedding plan that we can afford and is what we actually want!  Details later, I’m pooped.

Today’s picture is of one of the more ridiculous moments from Tom Baker’s time as Doctor Who that I found while reading my movie news:

Yes, that’s a minotaur.

See you tomorrow!

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Project 365 7-19-2010 Monday, Monday, Monday!

Monday is the day that I set-up how the rest of my week is going to look – it is very possible that this is the same for all of you out there in blog-land.  As Rene & I get closer to a wedding and Zeke and I get closer to strangling people for not writing us movie making checks there has been a lot to plan out on Mondays and today was no different.

As I look at my calendar the days are starting to fill with meetings – that’s a good thing!

That and lot’s of wedding math.

I’d write more, but my attention is on the other stuff I should be doing so I will leave you with today’s picture:

Guacamole is delicious!

See you tomorrow.

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Project 365 7-18-2010 A Wedding – Not Ours

Amber and Gabe got married!

Rene and I were there!

It was a wedding, and it’s where we spent most of our afternoon and night and I don’t really know what else to write.  The ceremony was lovely and touching.  It was at the Cerritos public library which is a much nicer venue than the words “public library” imply.

It really got Rene and I thinking about our wedding.  I’m really looking forward to it, all the planning crap aside.

But this post is really about Gabe and Amber.  Here’s to all the happiness that the world can give them!

See you tomorrow!

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Project 365 7-14-2010 Wanna’ Help Us Get Married?

What to write, what to write?

I’m not feeling the muse today and I’ve been sitting catching up on my YouTube subscriptions hoping that something would stimulate an exciting blog out of me.

It didn’t.

My mind is preoccupied by all the stuff that DIDN’T happen today and, in a totally unrelated way, the BP well cap that might or might not be working.

However, since I don’t have much else to write about tonight I would like to ask for your help!  Rene and I have entered a local radio contest to win a wedding!  We could really use the help because we’ve had to cancel the wedding we were planning – long story, not worth telling.  So please follow THIS LINK and vote for us!  They announce the top ten couples on Friday and we would really appreciate your support!

Today’s picture is of my empty juice cup:

Ever since I’ve stopped drinking soda my appreciation for juice has grown exponentially. 

See you tomorrow!

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Project 365 6-29-2010 Frustration

Deadlines.

Right now deadlines are the bane of my existence. 

I used to really like deadlines.  I work well under pressure.  It takes away the luxury of of worrying about a decision, you kind of just have to go with your gut.  I like making decisions.  I can live with making decisions even if they might not have been the best decisions, but what I can’t do is make other people make decisions any faster than they do and it is frustrating the hell out of me.

There’s only so much you can do when you’re frustrated: engage the feeling of frustration, engage the reason for the frustration or ignore the frustration.  I get a bit of an energy surge when I engage “feeling” frustrated.  It gets me fired up and usually means another task gets completed.  When I can I engage the reason for the frustration, usually if it is a person.  Meeting it head-on usually means that whatever the problem is will be solved or at least identified as a problem that needs addressing and having things come to a conclusion is better than letting them sit and get worse.  But, when neither other option is available or has worked you’re stuck with ignoring the frustration.

I went through all three phases of this today.

Between the wedding, the show and three different movie projects all waiting on other people Rene and I are just about at our wits end.  Around the corner is either paradise or tragedy and we don’t know which one it will be. 

I keep re-writing the next section of this blog and it keeps coming out like a “Gipper” speech.  It’s horribly cliche and doesn’t even come to saying what I want to get across so I’m going to quote my Twitter instead, “I’ve never let anything stop me from doing what I want & I refuse to let that start now.”

Today’s picture is of my bag:


It is what I carry my business around in.  It was with me all day today ready to be opened, even though I didn’t open it until very late at night.  It is starting to show the signs of it’s travels: a “D” clip from Sundance here, a luggage tag there, distressed leather in the spots where it rubs against my belt loops.  I kept hoping that during my day I would find the time to use up some of this frustration energy that has been building up, but it didn’t quite work out.  Now it’s just patiently waiting for tomorrow when I wake up.


It’s getting a lot of use then.


See you tomorrow.

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